Yesterday, we released our precious Lab, Laydee, from the earthly restraints of this life and back into the hands of her Creator.
It was one of those decisions you never want to make, yet deep down, you know when it is time. The Lord, in His quiet way, gives a kind of certainty in the midst of heartbreak. It was quick, and it was peaceful, but that doesn’t make the absence any easier.
Our home feels different today. There is a noticeable emptiness… a silence where there once was life, movement, and companionship. All three of us are feeling it. My husband, myself, and even Susie the cat. Seventy-five pounds of love leaves a space that cannot be ignored.
Grief has settled in, and I’m allowing myself a little time to step back and process it. There is no rushing through something like this. Love this deep deserves to be felt, even in its loss.
And yet, as hard as it is, life continues. Not because we are ready, but because God gently carries us forward, one step at a time.
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18
I will be back, Lord willing, before too long.
Debby
I'm so sorry Debby! It's so hard to make that decision for our beloved pets even though we know it's the right thing to do. I have tears in my eyes as I'm typing this. I'll pray for comfort for you and your husband.
ReplyDeletei am so sorry to hear this. It is so very hard to make that final decision, but it is the kindest one.
ReplyDeleteDebby, I'm so sorry to hear about Laydee. What a wonderful companion she was for all those years. Susie is going to feel the loss too without Laydee in the house. I am thinking of you today and sending thoughts of comfort and love during this time of deep sorrow.
ReplyDeleteMy condolences to you and your family and that includes the grieving cat. I know how hard it is and my heart hurts with your heart in your loss.
ReplyDeleteDear Debby...I am so very sorry that Laydee is now absent from your home. I know this leaves a huge hole in your hearts. Our fur babies are members of our family and it hurts terribly to lose one. I still miss my sweet "Bella" and it has been a couple of years since we had to have her put to sleep. When a picture pops up with her in it, my heart cries. Prayers for you all that the Lord brings a precious peace to your hearts.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. Those 4 legged members of our families are such a blessing. But, you loved her well for all these years. Hugs and prayers.
ReplyDeleteOhhh, I am so sorry. A piece of your heart is no longer there. Praying for peace.
ReplyDeleteSue
Debby, I am so sorry to hear this about Laydee. My heart aches for you. This is such a hard decision to make and the outcome is so painful. May she rest in peace. I will be praying for you and your family. ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteAw Debby, I'm stunned and so, so sorry!
ReplyDeleteFor some reason, I'm reminded of that splendid song from Chorus Line --
'What I did for Love.'
Please take all the time you need, and know our hearts are aching for you and all who loved Laydee.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry!! I am really shocked and deeply saddened by this. I had thought things were going so well, she must have had a really fast setback. That is what happened with our Simba. We knew he was not doing well and had arthritis, but then one morning, that was it. All of a sudden. It does leave you with no doubt when it happens this way, but that does not make it easier. Again, I am so sorry. I will miss your stories and mentions of her.
ReplyDeleteKeeping you all close in my heart and in my prayers, Debby.
ReplyDeleteOh Debby...I am so sorry to hear this...I was just reading about the sweet little buggy you had bought for Laydee, and I was thinking how much she would enjoy riding in it. Apparently things must've changed quickly. My heart breaks for you as I know how much you loved her. (((HUGS))) I am truly sorry. May God comfort your hearts. Think of Laydee being set free and able to run again through the fields of heaven. That's a comforting thought.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to say goodbye to a four-footed member of the family. I love the photo of young Laydee. She is now running just like that on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge.
ReplyDelete💔🐶 My heart goes out to you guys.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry ... my condolences to you all.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
Oh so sorry. All of us whoever have had to do that grieves with you!!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this news Debby. I thought there was more time. Big hugs to you. Janice
ReplyDeleteOh, I am so sorry and sad for you and your family. Losing a dear pet leaves such a hole in our hearts and in our everyday routines. You have my sympathy. It is always a hard decision, but one they rely on us to make. Feel my hug!!
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss. Losing a fur friend, one who just gave love and asked for nothing in return is very hard.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
This was so upsetting for me and why I got upset about a dog I have never meet I do not know I just did
ReplyDeleteDebby, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious Laydee. I know how hard it is having gone through the loss myself a few times. Praying for you as you grieve your furbaby. Hugs
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry about your loss of Laydee. I know how difficult that is and the feeling of that emptiness in your heart and home. I pray you are able to find the comfort and strength to get through these next days and can hold onto the memories that precious puppy gave you. Sending virtual hugs all the way from Pennsylvania.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right in reminding us all that the Lord is near the brokenhearted. I am so sorry for your loss. I love how you phrased this: "Seventy-five pounds of love leaves a space that cannot be ignored."
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. Prayer for all. It's never easy to lose a pet.
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