A lovely Sunday

 

We're having a lovely Sunday - 

It's nice and pleasant with windows open. But once the sun sets behind the mountains, it gets cold. 



Today, we experienced a bit of excitement at church. We spotted smoke in the canyon near the church building. Soon after, we noticed a fire spotter plane and helicopters with water buckets flying about 800 feet above us. It took the firefighters approximately two hours to bring the fire under control, which had spread across nearly 3 acres. Meanwhile, we were enjoying our monthly fellowship meal featuring Costco pizza, and the men kept going outside to watch the action.



Just a few weeks ago, I welcomed my newest great-grand-niece, Evie. 

A week later, her cousin, Oaklyn Brook, was born! Pictured above is my niece, who is now a grandmother of two girls and four boys.  

Evie was 6 lbs, whereas Oaklyn was almost 8 lbs! 





For those who have been following me for a while, you may remember that my niece, Nina passed away in November 2020 due to a fentanyl overdose. She was 28 years old and left behind two children: Abdirahman, who was five years old, and Aaliyah, who had just turned two.

Due to our family's diverse dynamics, Nina's father is a Shiite Muslim from Iran, while the children's father is a Sunni Muslim from Somalia. The two different branches of Islam have differing beliefs, but they share a strong hatred towards Jews, as well as a general discontent towards Christians. 

Unfortunately, I have been cut off from seeing my sister’s grandchildren and my niece’s children. Donna passed away in 2015. The only way I can see them now is when one of my sons checks their Facebook page and hopes that someone posts a photo. Their Grandfather, Abbas, shared some photos. 

I wish I could share the photo, but I'm afraid to. Their father has a criminal record and has threatened us before. The good news is Aaliyah is now 7 and Rahman is 11 and they look well. It bothers me knowing I can't touch them or tell them about their mom and grandmother. I keep some items tucked away for them that I know my mom and sister would want them to have. The whole situation is just sad. 




On Friday night, we attended Erev Shabbat at the Reform Jewish Temple. The liturgy was beautiful, and I always enjoy it when the Cantor chants the psalms in their original style. The music was beautifully sung in Hebrew. I met some new people, and we had pleasant conversations. I noticed that a few of the younger women seemed devastated about the election.


On Saturday late afternoon, we attended a Klezmer concert. It ran longer than expected, and since we had planned to go out to dinner afterward, we found it was too late to do so for us.  Being a Saturday night, every restaurant we considered had a long wait. As a result, we decided to go to Lumberjacks restaurant instead. I ordered a "senior" burger for $11, and it was good. My husband opted for a regular burger and fries. While it wasn't the steak or chicken Alfredo my taste buds were craving, it was fine. Given the time, we likely would have eaten too late for my digestive system to handle overnight. 


Until Next Time,

Debby




 “You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being.”

Revelation 4;11



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  1. I am so very sorry about this! We should all have inclusivity for everyone!!

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  2. Such a sad situation where you cannot see your family members. Why does there have to be hated in this world. I could not fathom not being able to see any of my family members because of a religious ethnic belief. Janice

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    1. I do have my nephew by marriage who checks in with me.

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  3. It's always sad when branches of the family can't get along.

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  4. This makes me so sad (about your family and the kids). Congrats on the new babies, how wonderful. No opening windows here, still so hot and humid, sigh. Wishing you a beautiful week ahead. smiles

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    1. Today is a beautiful rainy and cool day! Our rainy season is here!

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  5. Two adorable little ones and such a Blessing. I am sorry for all of your family confusion as I know this hurts you deeply. Life can be very complicated and although the complications can be heartbreaking, we know that resilience, hope and time have a way of guiding us through even the darkest moments. You can't beat a good ol' hamburger and fries AND good company...I know you both enjoyed this time. Hope the fire is completely out with no chance of it starting up again. Happy Monday Debby..have a good day.

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    1. Yeah, the burgers were better than expected and hit the spot!
      The fire is completely out and we’re having rain this morning. Our rainy reason is here! ☔️

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  6. Congratulations, Debby, on your two beautiful great nieces. I love their names!
    I'm so sorry about the family dynamics and have, in fact, something similar going on. When children are involved, the hurt is exquisite. I think you saving a few family treasures is a great idea. Wishing you a blessed week!

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    1. Family estrangements are happening more and more in our society. I know so many who are not able to see grandchildren etc. The breakdown of the American family extends to grandparents, aunts uncles. Tragic.

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  7. Oh, those two sweet baby girls are so precious and adorable! How wonderful for our family to have these beautiful new additions! However, the news about your other niece's family is sad, especially that you are not able to ever see your sister's grandchildren or tell them about their grandmother. But at least you say they appear to be healthy and doing well, so that is a plus, but sad that they are apparently being brought up to strongly dislike Christians and Jews. Prayers for their continued well-being and safety. So thankful the fire did not progress toward your church! Wow! That was too close for comfort! I would love to hear the Psalms sung in the Hebrew tongue. I can imagine it is beautiful to hear. Thank you for your post. Praying for you and your extended family.

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    1. Since they are immigrants from Iran and Somalia, they brought with them their religious ideology. They always “tolerated” us and now that both my sister and my niece have passed, they do not feel compelled to keep a relationship. I can hope that one day, both children will seek me out because they want to know about their grandmother and mother and that is why I keep little things for them.

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  8. Welcome to the world baby Evie and Oaklyn Brook. All is right with the world when a child is born. : )

    Have a good week, Debby.

    ~Sheri

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  9. the babies are just beautiful and at first glance, before reading I thought they were twins. I hope someday your family dynamics will change for the better, prayers for your family .

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  10. Those are some tougher than tough family dynamics you've described here, Debby. So sad when people are divided due to religion, for sure. The photo of the little ones melted my heart as I'm sure it does yours. They will be blessings to all. Prayers for you all!

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  11. Glad you were safe from that fire. Congratulations! They are adorable. So sorry about the issues that are going on that are keeping you from seeing your sister's grandchildren and niece's children. Keeping them in my prayers. I pray you get to see them someday. ((HUGS))

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  12. Divisions in the family are painful to say the least. I'm glad there is some type of contact through another family member so you know how they are.
    Since time began there has been factions that hate. Its hard to love those that do that. Prayers for your family.
    We have the same thing with my younger son's x and kids. They want nothing to do with their dad and so it trickles down to us too. Haven't seen the grands in over 6 years. Very sad.
    Glad the fire got out and that the rains have come. It just started raining about an hour ago here. I am celebrating the moisture for sure.
    Sue

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  13. New babies in a family are such a blessing
    Not being able to see grandchildren or niece and nephews is sad,

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