There is a lot to be Thankful for.



I'm battling a bit of a cold. I've been sneezing quite a lot, but no fever, chills, or sweats -  I'm grateful it's just one of those pesky colds. The kind of colds, back when I was younger, I would still go to work. After a sneezing attack, my nose tends to get a bit runny, so I've developed quite a bond with my trusty box of tissues! I tend to cough mostly at night. I don't take anything for a cold. I have always found that when I did, I would get worse. I do suck on cough lozenges. I’ve been feeling pretty sleepy, but on the bright side, I still managed to take a quick walk outside today! Plus, I tackled some laundry—changed the sheets and blankets, all that good stuff.

 I do feel a bit lazy, but I'm hanging in there! I won't be leading Bible study tomorrow. I think it's best if I hold off on sharing my cooties with others for now.


Today, my husband decided to check in at the VA Urgent Care because he's still feeling some soreness in his lower back, right where the left kidney is. I'm really glad that he's taking his health seriously now! They ran all the necessary tests and even did a quick nose swab—no Covid, and his kidneys are all clear of any infection. 



One thing in life is certain - death will come for each of us. 




Jerry was always the one on the right. 


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I learned from my cousin Brenda, the only one who keeps in touch, that her sister passed away at the age of 76 after a long illness. 

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Then she told me Jerry passed away just 12 hours later. I don't know the details, but I heard he was trying to travel from Pasay City in the Philippines to Bangkok, Thailand. He sent a text saying he was tired but felt he had to keep going; flying was becoming increasingly difficult for him.

I was aware that he had been living in Myanmar. About four years ago, a coup occurred, leading to a civil war. He worked as a rock promoter in Asia.
He was 61. His brother and three sisters are trying to bring him home, and facing various challenges.

I don't mean to sound mean or anything, but I have no feelings whatsoever because I never had any relationship with them. I do feel for their loved ones. I will remember Jerry as he was - a cute little boy. As far as I know, Jerry was getting back to God through a Christian recovery program he was going through. 




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When there is a death in the extended family, I often find comfort in exploring Ancestry and looking through the family tree. Recently, I discovered that another cousin on my mother's side had passed away in 2019, which I was unaware of until a couple of days ago. I received news of all three cousins within 24 hours.


It's surreal to be a part of a large family of cousins while feeling like an outsider.


Onward and Upward

Because of this cold, I’m feeling quite bored and low on energy. I'm only doing the bare minimum right now. I'm going to give it one more day, and then on Thursday I will force the issue—by taking a drive. A change of scenery would be nice, especially since there’s no rain in the forecast. Maybe go out for lunch and, most importantly - (and it ALWAYS works), a dose of my favorite mint chocolate chip ice cream! Yeah yeah, that will do nicely. 

In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
1 Thessalonians 5;18


  1. “Being sick feels like you’re wearing someone else’s glasses.” — Megan Boyle

Until next time,
Debby


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  1. Oh how I hate getting a cold. Hope you feel better soon. Praying the family is able to get Jerry home soon. How sad. Janice

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  2. Sorry to read of the passings. Glad to read that you'll be getting out soon if that's what's needed. I get that. So many folks get the fever and need out. Here's to a good strong week ahead. Cheers!

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  3. I hope you feel better soon. There are so many nasty illnesses going around right now. I'm sorry to hear about the loss in your family. When you said "It's surreal to be part of a large family of cousins while feeling like an outsider" that is something I really can understand. Well, I hope you can be back on your feet and feeling all better in no time. A change of scenery sounds like a great idea!

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  4. I'm glad it is only a cold! And yes, you need to rest and let your body use all it's strength to fight the virus. I'm sorry about your cousin...

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    1. Yeah it’s sad. The other two triplets are really suffering due to their incredible bond.

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  5. I used to power through colds, too. Now I keep my germs to myself, because I realize it's just false pride that makes me think the world can't go on without me

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    1. When I used to go to work was mostly due to bosses giving me the guilt trip or demanding a doctors note. So I went to work. I realize they were just bullying us but when you’re young you just take some otc cold medicine and off to work.

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  6. your cold sounds a lot like my March Allergies and I told the eye doctor this week I think March is early. he said yes it is. he asked if my eyes were itching, running a blurry at the beginning of annual exam. I never had allergies until the past couple of years. hello old age where we catch everything. I have distant cousins, but they are 1st cousins once and twice removed and 2nd cousins and their kids. and like you I don't know them, but I was very close to all my first cousins, 4 on maternal and 4 on paternal. of the 8, 5 of us are still kicking ranging from 70's to80's.

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    1. I’m feeling better this afternoon. I’m hoping it lasts.

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  7. They say a cold is a "house cleaning" for the body. Not sure if I believe that or not ha ha! It's way too cold to take walks outside here yet. Today it warmed up to 0°F.

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  8. I am sorry to hear of the passing of your cousins, even if they were distant relations that you did not really know, still, we always feel that little bit of sorrow that our family here on earth, as we knew it, is shrinking. But the good news is, for those who are in Christ, our family in heaven is growing. We pray that it is so for your cousins and their loved ones, that they knew Christ and that they are rejoicing in heaven today. I am sorry you are battling a cold. They are NO fun! This seems to be the season for them...the ever changing weather just keeps us off balance and it is easy for colds to catch up with us somehow. I've had more sinusitis/allergies this winter than I remember in a long time. Not a cold, just nagging little tickle cough that gets me right when I don't want it to. Like when I am trying to sing. Anyway, hopefully, this too shall pass. Praying your husband's kidney stone, etc. , if that is what it is, will also pass soon and that he will feel much better. Take care of yourselves and get the rest your body needs. Spring is coming soon, hopefully to stick around for a while, and maybe all these bugs will fly away. (((hugs)))

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    1. That’s it - I’m now at the age where I’m witnessing the family here on earth is shrinking. I feel for Jerry’s 4 other siblings - trying to get him to the US. So sad. All I can do is pray. Don’t have phone numbers or addresses.

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  9. Sending you a hug. And I continue to pray for your husband and you!
    I am sorry for your families loss, and I do understand your statement.

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    1. Thank you. One can feel sad but it’s different when there’s been no relationship. Just sad for the remaining siblings.

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  10. It's sad when a family member, even ones we haven't seen in a long time, passes away, Debby. Take good care of you and feel better soon!

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    1. I have such a big family of cousins that we wouldn’t even recognize if we bumped into each other on the street. They’re strangers but of course, I feel a sadness that the family is aging and we’re all dying off. It’s the same compassion one feels for strangers. I do feel sad for Jerry’s 4 siblings and everything they’re going through.

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  11. Oh yes, there's nothing like learning about the death(s) of kin from our own generation. Vulnerability comes in, uninvited. I know their numbers were small to begin with -- but aside from 3-4 long-distance visits during childhood, we've no bonds. Once our parents passed on there was no real reason to travel and keep in touch.
    I do like your prescription for self-care!

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    1. Once Grandma and Grandpa and then my dad’s 9 brothers and sisters the family just went it’s separate ways. I wasn’t raised with my cousins like all of them were. They all share a special history with each other and just never cared to know my sister and I.

      I get my first dose of mint chocolate chip ice cream after dinner. I decided to wait till then.

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  12. YES !!! Mint Chocolate Chip is the best medicine around !!
    Its my very, very favorite too.
    Hope your cold gets over asap... it sure can be debilitating.
    Loosing family that we aren't in contact with is still sad but it is different, as you said. I truly understand that too.
    Thank you Debby for your kind words to me personally on my last comment. I am meeting with Karen (Lynne's daughter) on Sunday and telling her that my time is finished after Feb. 28. She really already knows its coming but it will be official. I really feel that the Lord gave me the release yesterday and now its sad but I know it's the right decision. Continued prayers are so appreciated.
    Thanks northern friend
    Sue

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    1. I’m feeling better this afternoon so I’m hoping it lasts.

      I can imagine how sad it is but all things do eventually come to an end. Continuing prayers for sure and keep me updated.

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  13. So sorry for the loss of your cousins. While I am not really close to a majority of my cousins we do keep in touch. I am very, very close to 7 of them though.

    God bless.

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    1. Thanks a blessing Jackie! I would have liked that with some of my cousins - I even tried but it just didn’t work out.
      Still sad about my one cousin and very curious how he died. I feel for his siblings.

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  14. I don't take medicine for colds either. It makes me feel loopy.
    Hope your feeling better soon.

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    1. Frankly I think a cold needs to just run its course.

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  15. Sorry about your cousin. I can't think of a single thing that mint chocolate chip ice cream wouldn't help!

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  16. I hope you feel better, Debby. Mint chocolate chip is one of my favs too. And a nice drive always brings tranquility. I'm sorry to hear of your relatives' passing. We are at that age now where we will be hearing that more often. So sad. It's foggy here this morning, but the sun is coming through. Have a blessed day.

    ~Sheri

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  17. Only last week a cousin of mine passed away but I didn't attend her funeral as I didn't know her, my sisters Jeannie & Sandy went. I hope your cold packs up and leaves soon

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  18. Sorry to hear about the death of your cousins. I do not have many cousins and none of them really keep in touch with me. Not sure how that happens but it is rather sad for me. I hope you will be feeling 100 percent soon and free of that tissue box. Good for you getting the sheets changed. That is big if when you have full energy. (Or is that just me??)

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