A Nutty Hodgepodge

 From this Side of the Pond

1. How did you meet your husband? significant other? If you don't have a significant other, tell us how you met your best friend. 

In the late 1990s, we first crossed paths on an AOL message board dedicated to divorced Christians. Our discussions centered around the theology of being a divorced Christian. It was during these exchanges that he reached out to me via email. His greeting of "Shalom" piqued my curiosity about him. After exchanging emails for a few months, we finally had a phone conversation. He had been in Florida for a few months, supporting his father who had undergone heart surgery, and he mentioned that he would be returning to Seattle in a couple of months. He inquired if he could stop by while on his way up to WA and I consented. We had our first encounter - then we sustained our friendship over a long distance. He would make trips to San Francisco, and I would travel to Seattle. He was getting serious - I was not ready. We kept this up for a few years - I made him work hard to win me over as I hesitated to marry again. Without delving into all the mushy details, we married in 2002. 

2. It's Department Store Day (October 16)...do you still shop in department stores? If not, do you miss that kind of shopping experience? Do you have a favorite department store? Any fun memories of department store shopping when you were a child? 

Macy's has always been my go-to department store. I have a special connection to it because I worked there in the early 1980s. Even though I have many fond memories associated with Macy's, I don't get to shop there as often as I'd prefer.




I have vivid memories of accompanying my mother on our shopping trips to Market Street in San Francisco. The bustling N Judah streetcar would whisk us downtown, where we would visit iconic stores such as The Emporium, Macy's, the City of Paris, I. Magnin, and the Roos Brothers. These outings were always special and filled with excitement. Christmas was magical, and we would get our photos with Santa on the rooftop of the Emporium building. 

3. Something you're currently nuts about? 

Nothing comes to my mind. 


4. What's your favorite nut and is there a favorite recipe where this nut is used? 

I like all kinds of nuts, although my digestive system doesn't always agree with them. I particularly enjoy indulging in chocolate chip cookies, banana bread, and zucchini bread, all of which are made even more delicious by the addition of walnuts. 





Does anyone remember the decadent Walnut Layer Cake that used to be sold at the Sara Lee outlet on Disneyland's Main Street? 

It was a delight. Unfortunately, they discontinued it after a while, much to the disappointment of many including me! 

5. On Wednesday we officially reach the '70 days until Christmas' mark. Have you purchased any gifts? If you don't celebrate Christmas then how about Hanukkah presents? 

No, and No. 

6. Insert your own random thought here.  

Today, exterminators are coming over to attack the rat infestation in our yard and on the hill. Although my husband believes he has managed to get rid of most of them, I am concerned about the possibility of more rats seeking shelter in our garage or, even worse, inside our home once the rainy season begins.





Comments

  1. Enjoyed reading how you met your husband. I sure do miss the old stores myself. The ones with the creaking wood floors and shop window displays. At Christmas these stores became magical with their colorful scenes and hustling of shoppers. Even the small town we lived in was full of Christmas everywhere one looked. Walking the sidewalks was fun with my parents. Then the shopping malls came and thus the decline and demise of the small town experience. It was such a shame. Janice

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    1. Yeah after shopping in a real downtown, I never really embraced malls. The toy stores back in my day were fun to visit. One had a slide taking you to the basement of the toy store with all the trains! It was awesome.

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  2. I enjoyed hearing about how you met your husband. I like that he was using Shalom, and knowing what I know about him, it's not surprising!
    Glad the exterminators are coming. That will give you some peace of mind.

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    1. My husband’s rat patrol could only do so much - It was time to call in the calvary.

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  3. Awe...this is a sweet story of how you and your husband met. You did make him work to win you over and I am so happy that this long distance relationship worked out for you both. This is a great Blessing. goodness, that walnut cake looks so good. We love pecans around here. I have 50 lbs of shelled pecans that are supposed to be delivered today. I know this will be a big relief to you for the exterminators to come out and get ride of the rats. I am with you on the Christmas. No gifts purchased here as of yet. We have 19 to buy for.😳

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    1. Yes I certainly didn’t want to make another mistake. It was fun but after awhile we were just missing each other.
      I don’t think there is a nut I don’t like.
      I can’t even think of Christmas yet.

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  4. ick on rats, I am sure I already said this, LOL. Wishing you a lovely day my friend.

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  5. What a sweet story about meeting your husband!

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    1. Yeah it’s unique. Of course in the late 90’s it was quite a risk but I felt I “vetted” him. It all worked out.

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  6. It is so good that you are getting professionals to finish off this! Always best to get experts. I really Like Macys, but there are none around here.

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    1. Just the smell of Macys brings back good memories. I shop there about once a year. They have a brand of pajamas that I love.

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  7. I love these Hodgepodge surveys. Do you create them yourself or join in with someone else? You reminded me of those AOL days. Simpler times before social media took over. I'm glad you were able to find love again and your wedding year is the same as mine. I love all different kinds of nuts, especially cashews and pistachios.

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    1. No I don’t create the questions. It’s a linky group.

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  8. I so love knowing how your husband and you met, Debby. It's a great story! I met Danny over E-Harmony, and we got married in 2005 - twenty year anniversary is coming up!
    Blessings!

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    1. Wow, that’s incredible. Congratulations. God can use any tool to bring two people together! ❤️

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  9. Love this Nutty Hodgepodge survey. I think its wonderful when one can find love again. That happened to my younger son and we are forever grateful for his new lease on life.
    Many a day my Mom and I went into The City to shop at the Emporium, Macy's and other stores. In fact we bought my wedding dress from the Emporium.
    Met my Hubby at SF State College when I went to a Baptist College group that met on campus. There outing that weekend was to the California School for the Blind located in the Oakland hills. Dave invited me to go along to take the kids on a hike. And the rest is history. I found my soul mate and a wonderful group of friends that we are in contact with to this day.
    Love nuts but they don't love me. Walnuts hurt my mouth so I stay away from them. Cashews are my favorite.
    Sue

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    1. My first husband attended SF State when S.I. Hayakawa was President and all the riots and student strikes in 1968.

      Funny you mentioned the California School for the Blind - as a young mommy, I did cold calling for them in my home to bring in a little extra income. Small work when you live in the Bay Area.
      I have to be very careful with nuts.

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  10. I love hearing "When Harry Met Sally" real-life stories such as yours! We'd no big department stores growing up, but I remember when my mother would delight in visiting them while in Denver: Gloves, hose and heels -- yep one 'dressed' for the occasion.
    That cake image is driving my taste buds crazy; worse that I'm having to fast for labs in a couple hours.

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    1. Shopping was a big deal. Always dressed up and wore the little white gloves.
      That cake was so good - hope all your lab work has good results

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  11. I miss the stores. It was nice to see and feel what your buying.
    If I had to choose a favorite nut it would be pecans.

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  12. I like the way you met your husband, when I was a child ging shopping was done in nice clothes not play clothes, now people go shopping looking like something the cat dragged in

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    1. You’re right. I see people wearing their pajamas!

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  13. That walnut layer cake really looks like something I'd enjoy. Maybe I'll need to find a copycat recipe. Glad the two of you found each other and that your husband stuck to his guns. Happy Hodgepodge to you!

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    1. That’s a good idea. I’m going to look that up. Yeah I’m glad he persisted, too.

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  14. That is a beautiful love story. So happy you found each other. Yes, Macy's is a nice store but I too don't go there anymore but I have ordered online from them. Those sound like good treats to eat. I am so sorry about the rats. Praying that they can get rid of all of them.

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  15. Hello, I enjoyed how you met your husband. And answering with Shalom, would have sparked curiosity in me too.
    RATS... oh my!! We had them in our neighborhood in 2020... YUCK!

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  16. What an interesting post. I love how you met your husband. Mine enjoys saying that I am the "Innkeepers daughter". My parents bought the hotel in the small village of Torquay, Saskatchewan and once I was old enough I would bartend and serve. This was along with the job I had in the city of Estevan at a corner store.

    God bless.

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  17. Oh Jackie what a cute story. You, the Innkeeper's daughter! Love it.

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  18. What a sweet and interesting story about how you and your husband met and your relationship developed! Have a great week!

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