Christmas and Hanukkah


Happy Saturday. 

No, I haven't been busy decking the halls in preparation for Christmas just yet. At the moment, I have a long list of other responsibilities that take precedence, and you know what? I'm completely at peace with that. Amid all this, I did manage to take out a cherished little angel topper that has been a part of my little family tradition since my boys were small. It’s a simple piece—a porcelain angel head mounted on a cardboard base, with oversized hands holding a choir book. 

Interestingly, I never really took note of the hands until I snapped a photo of it just now! It made me chuckle. Typically, angels are depicted as majestic and powerful beings, serving as messengers of God. While Scripture leaves their size to the imagination, many descriptions suggest they are large and imposing creatures. At least in this case, my angel certainly has some very noticeable hands that lend a bit of grandeur to its appearance!

Aside from the sparkling new lights strung around the branches, the pinecones nestled among the green needles, and the simple angel topper perched at the very top, my Christmas tree is surprisingly bare. The vibrant ornaments that typically adorn the tree are noticeably absent, and are still waiting, whether I am going to get them out or skip it this year. 

We'll see...







Source: Friends of the Redding Eagles


Now this is a tree topper! 











Christmas is a joyous season, a time for giving and spreading warmth. In my heart, I feel compelled to share that love with our local Jewish community. The true essence of this season lies in offering support, a comforting presence, and the genuine affection that can be felt in a simple hug. I believe that this is the calling my God has placed on my heart, urging me to uplift them and embody the spirit of compassion and generosity that defines this special time of year.

After all, Jesus is JEWISH!
It just makes sense! 


We ordered eight Hanukkah boxes, and they came the other day -  I bought dollar tree mesh and wrapped a bow around each box.







I packed everything back into the two bigger shipping boxes, for my husband's delivery this morning in time for Shabbat. The congregation meets only once a month - when the Rabbi from Chico comes up. (I tell you, we're rural up here!)  We wanted them to have these boxes to give to the eight who they believe can use Hanukkah cheer.  Unfortunately, I am not able to actually be there this morning because Laydee requires my attention and supervision while she recovers from her surgery. 

Last night, there was a baby naming ceremony, during which the new baby received a Hebrew name. During this brief event, the parents shared the significance of the name, and blessings were recited, acknowledging the child's covenant with God. The traditional wish is for the child to grow in Torah study, loving relationships, and good deeds.

Welcome to Eshet Chayil - Woman of Valor 

(Proverbs 31;10-31)







The best I could do with my iPhone! 









Yesterday was a warm day - probably the last for this year so I decided to open the door and let the pleasant warm air flow into the house. The interior temperature had dropped, and I wanted to take advantage of the warmth outside. With the sun positioned at a lower angle in the sky during the fall months, it tends to cast longer shadows and creates a cooler temperature indoors. 

I've learned that even lowering the temperature by just one degree can significantly reduce our energy costs, so I’m always cautious about how we manage our heating. On days when the weather turns cloudy and a brisk wind sweeps through, I adjust the thermostat upward by a couple of degrees to fend off the chill. Since we are already accustomed to cooler inside temperatures, we find it perfectly comfortable—plus there are always blankets and sweatshirts!  








Nice quiet evening last night. 












Sunset from across the street 







My sweetgum, refusing to give in to winter...








I had previously mentioned that our family had collectively decided to forgo gifts this year, but as the Mom, I couldn’t shake the feeling of sadness that came with it. The joy of giving has always been a special part of my tradition as a Mom, and it felt wrong to let it slip away. So, taking advantage of Cyber Monday's deals and next-day delivery,  I bought each of our adult children a thoughtful gift. It lifted my spirits to think of them unwrapping something special from us- and we didn't break our budget!  

I understand how challenging it can be to shop for loved ones who seem to have pretty much everything they could want or need—well, at least, everything that's reasonable to buy! For instance, my youngest son has his heart set on a boat, but there’s no way that dream gift is coming from us ever!  Instead, my budget allows for mostly smaller items. I’m always mindful that I might accidentally pick something they already own, but I tried my best to choose a gift that would bring a smile. It helps that I really know them - and can usually come up with something, that surprises them - and that's because us Moms pay attention during the year! 

If I manage to carve out some extra time, I might also whip up a few crafty projects or bake some treats to accompany the gifts. That would add a personal touch. I'm glad I am pretty much done! 


Update on Laydee


She's doing really well. Like any surgery for humans, she's been a bit tired. However, when she walks around, she gets her energy back and starts wanting to do things she shouldn't be doing for a couple of weeks—like chasing after the Amazon delivery trucks that speed up and down the street.







She needs supervision - to keep from scratching since the cone of shame touches her incision, so she has been sparred that humiliation...We have to keep an eye that she doesn't start digging the stitches out with her big old paws! 

She smells better too - like her old sweet self. Amazing how stinky that "mass" was. And to think we thought it was her breath or old dog body odor! 


Well, that's going to be it for me today - 


I'm feeling happy, energetic, grateful and thankful and I hope you are too. 

Until next time -
Debby








 

Comments

  1. You have the true spirit of Christmas. Just simple things, Jesus was not about grandeur! And the price of gifts does not matter, it is buying what we think suits the person and is something they would like, that you choose yourself. I love your gorgeous sky and Sweetgum photos! I had never heard of Hanukkah Boxes before.

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    1. They are gifts of Israeli food treats, available in boxes or baskets. We ordered eight of them through Friends of Israel.

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  2. "Welcome to Eshet Chayil - Woman of Valor"

    Gave me chills! Amen. Praise God.

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    1. And what a beautiful name it is! I was truly impressed by their commitment to tradition, as it reflects a deep appreciation for their heritage.

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  3. We've kept our decorations very simple this year, too, Debby. I do love how y'all celebrate both Hanukkah and Christmas, and your angel is splendid! And when it comes to buying/giving gifts, you can't take away our "Mom-ness." LOL! So glad Laydee doesn't have to wear the cone of shame - so frustrating for the pups. Blessings!

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  4. I would enjoy your tree just like it its and if you are happy with it, why not leave it that way. I love simple things and I think our home should have whatever makes us feel good when we look at it, and don't think about what others my think or like.
    I enjoyed every word and every moment and all your beautiful pictures including the fat fisted angel. I did not notice the hands until I read your post. I think the Hanukkah gifts are a wonderful caring gift. I am not a gift giver or a gift buyer or card sender, I have tried to change but it is not me. I have just now reading your post thought I know why.
    I don't like gifts to be given to me, unless of course its something I want and someone says would you like a new Samsugn 24? sure bring it on. It is hard for me to buy because I rarely like what is given me and it goes on a shelf until I need a gift. I am my daddy . he was the same way. Poor mother was the opposite. I see that now..
    that said, if it makes you happy do it or don't do it unless of course it is something that would harm others. you sound like you are doing that. be happy and enjoy Christmas and giving your kids your gifts.

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    1. I’m the same way with receiving gifts. As was told to me by a wise woman; “why rob the joy of the giver, to give you a gift.” True I never thought of it that way. I love to give gifts ( when I can afford it) because it tickles me.
      I have a story about me when I was 10 that I will share on a post. I really learned a life lesson about giving and receiving!

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  5. Such a beautiful post, full of the joy of the Lord! Thank you for sharing your beautiful pictures and thoughts with us. I love the idea of the Hanukkah boxes. And the baby girl's name is beautiful. "Woman of Valor" is so significant to me. When our son Matthew died, a friend wrote a sympathy card to us and stated in the card the following: Matthew, a Man of Valor. That really touched our hearts then, and seeing this now about the new baby girl just truly blessed me. Thank you for sharing that. Praying Laydee will heal quickly. So glad that is over! Your tree sounds beautiful to me! And that Eagle for a tree topper! Oh yes! Your angel is lovely. She has powerful hands to do the Lord's work! She's beautiful! Love the leaves, trees, and outdoors. Have a lovely Christmas season.

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    1. How sweet that your son was known to be a “man of valor.”
      Hahaha, yes my angel has powerful hands to do the Lords work! Love it!

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  6. I haven't decorated yet either. I'm never in a hurry.
    Love the picture of the eagle.
    We keep our thermostat set at 68.

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    1. That’s nice and warm if it’s cold out. We’ve been keeping ours at 67. As long as I am moving around, I’m hot. When I crash on the sofa, I have a cat in one side and the dog on the other side plus a blanket! Comfy cozy and very warm.

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  7. I am so glad that Laydee is feeling so much better that she wants to chase the trucks that speed by.

    For the last couple of years I have put a menorah in our window in support of my Jewish brethren.

    God bless.

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    1. Oh Jackie that is so nice of you to keep a menorah in your window. God is blessing you for your sincere heart and kindness to His chosen.

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  8. I'm a little late commenting today, but I do love your angel. It is beautiful. My little great grandson told me the other day, that he had only seen two trees this year with a star on them. I now have on my list of to do things, to find a star or angel for our tree. Debby...you have a beautiful Christmas spirit and I can sense it in your post. I am like you....we decided to give all older kids money this year, but my heart is really tugging at me to buy something for each of them to have under the tree. Of course...I have 13 adults to buy for and this alone can be expensive. I really enjoyed the eagle picture and how perfect for it to look like the topper on a tree. Hope you are enjoying a lovely weekend....Your photos are so good...

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    1. Oh man, 13 adults to buy for? What ever happened to the banks Christmas clubs? Where throughout the year a certain amount was saved for Christmas. Granted we could just be disciplined and do it ourselves but I always liked those accounts!
      Shug, I’d get out there and find that grandson of yours a Christmas Star! If you can find one, craft one! That wouldn’t be hard and you seem gifted enough to do that.

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  9. For some reason, I've always been fascinated by given names -- and their history. Eshet Chayil's naming ceremony sounds wonderfully meaningful!
    Years ago I attended a Unity church where the pastor compared a "legion of angels" to say, the NY Giants' linebackers. When the laughter had died down, she continued: "Well, if you were in trouble, wouldn't you rather have those vs. some delicate diaphanous ladies?"
    I hope you'll let us know how your gifts for "the boys" were received, and thank you for this update on Laydee.

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    1. I’d rather have the NY Giants linebackers as my angels. lol.
      The old artists depiction of cherubs always freaked me out as a child.

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  10. I love the idea of the Hannukah boxes. Those 8 people or families will have unexpected joy upon receiving them.
    I think the meaning of that name is beautiful, and a good thing with the state of the world and oppression of jewish people.
    Glad Laydee is doing better!
    I feel the same as you about giving gifts. There is great joy in giving.

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    1. At their congregation board meeting they will determine who will get them. It’s possible that baby Eshet Chayil‘s family will be the recipient of one of them on her first Hanukkah.

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  11. There's certainly a lot going on at your house! Here, we're still trying to figure out simple, mailable gifts for the kids and grandkids who live halfway across the country.

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    1. I haven’t mailed anything at Christmas since my son moved back home to California after serving in the Navy.

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  12. I enjoyed your post. I think it is nice that you got to Hanukkah boxes to give away. What is in them? I have a cousin that likes to celebrate Hanukkah, and I am giving her a plate that I got for my Hanukkah presentation. I am setting my Hanukkah candle, plate and a few other things on Christmas morning so when my family comes over, they can see it. Then I will share about it. Have a happy Sunday!

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    1. That's what it is about - sharing and educating others!

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  13. Another great post, my friend. "Welcome to Eshet Chayil - Woman of Valor"--wow beautiful. Wishing you a lovely day.

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  14. I love Christmas but I don't like to over do the decorations, I don't decorate outside with lots of lights and stuff and now days only have a small tree that sits on then entertainment unit. I know nothing about Hanukkah and never heard of Hanukkah boxes till now so I found the post interesting

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    1. I'm finding out more and more that there are many of us who do not go all-out in decorating for whatever reason. It's nice. Years ago, in my younger days, my house was referred to as the Christmas House. I overdid it back then. No wonder I don't want to "play that game anymore." I'm still worn out and tired! lol

      Of course, this has been an "off year" for me. I didn't do many of the things I always do this past year, so this might just be a sabbatical leave from doing what I always do. A nice break!


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