Rain, Memories, a Tip and the Latest on Elias


This Friday morning, we have rain! 

Rain is falling, creating a serene ambiance that fills the air with a fresh, earthy scent with the promise of more rainfall in the days to come. 

I love sitting by the window, 
watching the rain.

I just realized that our shade screens from the summer are still in place. I guess I’ve become so accustomed to their presence that I barely notice them anymore. Typically, by this time of year,  they would have been taken them down. 


Here I go again - 
marching down Memory Lane...

In Northern California, the late autumn rains drench the air with a sense of festivity, stirring memories of Christmas that linger like the scent of pine. My thoughts go back to my childhood, where the thrill of riding the streetcar down Market Street in the heart of the City yields fond memories. The downtown streets pulsating with life—alive with the hustle and bustle of holiday shoppers. 

Joyous bell ringers peppered every corner - each cheerful jingle echoed through the streets, weaving a delightful tapestry of sound that blended with the city's spirited ambiance. As a child, the atmosphere felt electric, filled with laughter and merriment, as if the very essence of joy itself had come to life. Perhaps my Mom, along with every other adult with children in tow, held a vastly different perspective.  On every street corner, there were puddles.  If you didn’t tread carefully, a passing truck or car would speed by, sending a torrent of water splashing up to greet you, soaking your shoes and sending a cold shock up your legs. In those days, it felt like every woman wore dresses or skirts, regardless of the chilly weather. Brrr, it really was cold! Everywhere I looked revealed another scene of the holiday spirit. 

And then came shopping malls...



That was Christmas in the City! 












Memories hold such a special significance in our lives, don’t they? They have a unique way of wrapping around us like a warm blanket, providing comfort during both joyful and challenging times. I remember someone sharing with me years ago that one of the telltale signs of aging is when you find yourself often drifting back to those cherished moments of the past, reliving them with a sense of nostalgia. It's fascinating how our experiences shape who we are, and reflecting on them can bring a mix of warmth and wistfulness.


Well, guess what? 
I'm getting old. 








So, what's going on in my stomping grounds besides rain?




The husband just returned from his appointment at the VA for podiatry. He needs special inserts for his shoes, and the VA also covers the cost of two new pair of shoes each year. His foot arthritis is quite severe, so they provide him with pain patches and a topical cream. Additionally, they supplied him with a paraffin wax machine, which he uses when he's in significant pain; he heats the wax and dips his foot into it. They also provide all the paraffin wax he needs.


If you suffer from Arthritis you might consider: 


paraffin wax bath covers the hands or feet completely with molten paraffin wax. The warm, melted wax helps to reduce joint stiffness, heats the dilated blood vessels, improves circulation, and helps ease the pain. Since there is no cure for arthritis, this is one way you can help alleviate some of the discomfort. 

For some of you who have bad arthritis in your feet or hands, this might be a good option for less than $100. 

Plus, you get soft feet! (hands) 














And for those who have asked 
about little Elias  - 





From the Go-Fund Me page



The Latest 









We're not hearing much about his friend Roman - 
other than this mention.  I know the community was/is raising funds - the family desires their privacy. 












May this season be a time of joyful anticipation and reflection on the love and grace of our Savior, who came to dwell among us and will return in glory.

Talk to you later...

Debby









 

Comments

  1. Yeay that the VA stepped up on behalf of your hubby's feet! I remembering we had one of those paraffin wax baths like they offer at some nail salons. Unfortunately, what I thought was a great idea went largely ignored by the hubby. Perhaps he'll reconsider if I bring it up again.
    Thanks for much for the update on Elias. Still praying!

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    1. We’ve not ever had an issue with the VA here. We’re thankful for that!
      Oh men! lol. At first my husband who never had a pedicure felt uneasy until he realized the benefit. Not a cure but sure feels good if you’re really having a hard time managing the pain.

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  2. You know you are getting old when those bouts of nostalgia overwhelm us, Debby. I will most certainly add Elias to my church's prayer chain and my personal list, too. Poor sweet boy! May God continue to heal him and bring him peace and comfort. Blessings!

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  3. I did not know that you can purchase a paraffin wax unit. I would like to look into it. I will need physical therapy on my thumb/hand after the splint comes off. I hope Elias recovers completely!

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    1. Yes I just looked on Amazon - paraffin wax machine for hands and feet

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  4. Glad to har you got some rain.
    Thanks for the update on Elias.

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  5. Oh, that dear precious boy. Praying for Elias now, and Roman too. God knows exactly what each of them need, and prayer is the best place to start. I never heard of the paraffin wax idea for arthritis before. My pain is more in my back and shoulders, etc., so I'm not sure I'd want to put paraffin all over my body! LOL. I wrap up in my electric throw blanket and that helps a lot when I am feeling particularly achy, usually when the weather changes it gets worse, and the warmth feels so good. Yes, nostalgia hits us sometimes when we aren't ready for it, and it kind of leaks down our faces from our eyes...and we swallow the lumps in our throats quite a bit, and sometimes have to blow our noses...That's what nostalgia does to me anyway. But I do love those walks on memory lane. Sometimes those places are so much sweeter than the present and there is comfort there, but then we have to wake up and realize that this is now and that was then, and life goes on and we have to make the very best of every day, because someday we'll be missing this day as well. I loved your memories of city sidewalks, etc. Yeah, shopping malls came along and spoiled it, and now they are gone pretty much too, and maybe city shops will come back again...I wish they would. I miss window shopping in the pretty shop windows.
    I enjoyed your post, and I will be praying for those dear little boys.

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    1. I don’t think they make upper body paraffin wax machines. LOL
      I’ve always been senti”mental.” It really does depend on my current state of mind. I can’t help, thinking back to sweet memories. It’s how I keep my loved ones in my heart. I hope that one day if dementia should take me away, that those precious memories will comfort me.
      Thank you for praying for boys.

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  6. I have severe arthritis in my foot. I could not even walk on it a couple months ago without screaming. But they did guided injections into the joint and now no more pain!! i have not heard of the wax treatment, it is so interesting. I need to look into it, for when the injection wears off! thank you for telling us. Hey, we both rode streetcars as kids!!!

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  7. P.S What is the wax machine called, so I can look it up on Amazon?

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  8. I loved reading your memories today. You wrote it so well, I could picture it!
    Glad the VA is covering your husbands treatments. Sometimes they don't do so well and when I worked in the office, I would get so frustrated for our vets who deserve the best!
    So sad for Elias. Thank you for the update.

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    1. He’s been fortunate. The VA has been good to him so far except during the pandemic when a zoom Doctor from out of our area shamed him for wanting a certain test by telling him, if he went with the MRI he was taking it away from a more needy veteran. We were shocked. After all he served 20 years! I finally talked him into making a complaint. Totally uncalled for.

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  9. Prayers for these children. Thank your Debby for sharing the updates. How sweet it is that memories are so dear to our hearts. The Beautiful things of life that brings us so much happiness and joy. You described these memories well and I as I read, I could picture all the joy on many faces. Glad your husband is getting the help he needs and will hoping this makes a huge difference for him. I love your Buffalo checked curtains. That would be so me! Enjoy that sweet rain.

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  10. Yes the shopping mall were the downfall of many small towns. It was such a shame. Now those same malls are mostly vacant because everyone shops online now. Thanks for the update on Elias. I will pray for him. Janice

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  11. Thank you for the update on the boys. I am praying!!! And my prayer warrior friends are as well.
    I enjoy your trips down memory lane Debby. Thank you for sharing.
    Carla

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  12. I hope those dear boys are doing Ok. Thanks for the update, Debby. You have many fond Christmas memories. Thanks for sharing some of them. : )

    ~Sheri

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