Don't say, "Happy Memorial Day."

We don't CELEBRATE Memorial Day

We OBSERVE MEMORIAL DAY

Memorial Day should be approached with the right tone. While some may wish others a "Happy Memorial Day," it's important to remember the solemn nature of this occasion. Would you celebrate the memory of a lost loved one with festivities like hot dog competitions or sales events?

Certainly not—such actions could come across as insensitive. It’s essential to remember the purpose behind Memorial Day and to honor those who have made the ultimate sacrifice with the respect it deserves.

Don't Wish a Veteran a Happy Memorial Day. 

It’s important to recognize that many veterans may feel uneasy when thanked for their service on Memorial Day. They are aware of the day's deeper significance and the sacrifices made by those whom they may have personally known who lost their lives in service. My dad was right next to a close friend on a battlefield in Korea when his buddy was hit.  While it was always difficult for him to discuss (and he didn't with me until a few months before he died), I know that Memorial Day held significant meaning for him. 

Memorial Day used to be recognized on May 30 as Decoration Day, a time for communities to honor the graves of those who sacrificed their lives for our country. Many of these individuals were young, familiar faces in our neighborhoods, like the paperboy or the gas station attendants. The early 1970s marked a significant turning point. My Dad noted the changing nature of respect and honor, predicting a decline in its reverence. He was insightful in his observations.

As we hurry to a picnic or shopping mall, we often overlook the true meaning of sacrifice, either not understanding it or being too comfortable in our freedoms to make even a small sacrifice ourselves.

Every town and city across America typically hosts a Memorial Day service, honoring those who have sacrificed their lives on the battlefield for our freedom. These ceremonies often include heartfelt speeches, wreath laying, and taps playing, creating a solemn and respectful atmosphere. 

I encourage you to take a moment to look up the schedule for your local service, as participating in this meaningful event can deepen your appreciation for the holiday. Make it a point to stop by and pay your respects, even if it's just for a short time, before heading off to your picnic or other celebrations. It’s a beautiful way to remember those who paid the ultimate sacrifice and honor their families who also paid the price while bringing a sense of community into your day.

I assure you, this experience will be truly unforgettable, and you'll find yourself eagerly anticipating each Memorial Day that comes.

Here are the Do's and Dont's of Memorial Day

Veterans Day is not the same as Memorial Day.  

Veterans Day is a time when small towns come alive with vibrant parades, filled with the cheerful sounds of marching bands and the proud smiles of veterans in uniform. It’s a day dedicated to gratitude, where communities gather to honor the sacrifices of those who served, reflecting on their heroism and the liberties they have safeguarded.

Home of the FREE because of the BRAVE! 

Armed Forces Day honors those still serving. 

I feel incredibly blessed to be part of a proud lineage of military service, reflected in the dedicated contributions of my son and husband and the countless sacrifices made by my father, uncles, and grandfathers before me. This deep-rooted connection to military heritage fills me with immense pride. My husband and I actively engage in various veteran activities in our community, striving to honor those who have served. I had the honor of serving as the VFW President of the Ladies Auxiliary, where I dedicated my time to supporting our veterans and fostering a sense of camaraderie among their families.

God Bless the USA

and God Bless our Fallen Heroes 

Debby